What to wear to a wedding in Uganda as a guest

A wedding in Uganda can mean more than one day and more than one dress code. There may be an introduction, a church or mosque ceremony, and a reception that runs late into the night. Start by finding out which of these you are attending. Each one calls for something a little different.

First, ask about the colours

Many couples choose colours for the day, especially for family and close friends. Ask the person who invited you, or someone on the wedding committee, before you buy anything. It saves you from standing out for the wrong reason.

Ask about the colours before you buy anything.

For an introduction

Introductions are usually the most traditional part. Among the Baganda, this ceremony is the kwanjula, and guests are often expected to wear traditional dress: a gomesi for women, and a kanzu with a jacket for men. Other cultures have their own ceremonies and their own dress, so ask the host family what they expect. Traditions differ, and they would rather you asked.

For the ceremony

• In a church: dress modestly. Some congregations expect covered shoulders, so bring a light jacket or shawl if your dress is sleeveless.
• In a mosque or at a nikah: choose long sleeves and a long hem, and women should bring a headscarf.
• Men: a suit or a smart shirt with well-fitted trousers is a safe choice. Add a tie if the wedding is formal.
• Women: a midi or maxi dress, or a smart two-piece set, works for most ceremonies.

For the reception

Receptions are where you can have more fun with your outfit. Bold colours and prints are welcome, as long as you are still following any colours the couple has chosen. If you are going straight from the ceremony, pick one outfit that can do both, then change your shoes or add jewellery for the evening.

Small things people forget

• White is for the bride, unless the couple has asked guests to wear it.
• Heels and grass don't mix. Many receptions are held in gardens, so choose block heels or take flat shoes along.
• Check the weather. During the rainy seasons, keep a light layer and an umbrella in the car.
• Try it all on a few days early, with the shoes, so there is time for a tailor to adjust anything.

Collect ideas first

Look through dresses, shirts and sets in the Fashionate feed and save the ones you like to your favorites. Then show them to your tailor, or to the friends you are going with. It is an easy way to agree on an outfit before anyone spends money.